Chinese weddings are rich in centuries-old traditions. As a photographer, I’ve had the opportunity to take part in many Chinese celebrations, and my favorite moment to capture is, hands down, the tea ceremony. It’s not just a beautiful tradition to witness, but it’s one of the most emotional and meaningful moments of the entire day.
It’s truly special to watch couples serving tea to their parents and elders, a powerful symbol of respect, gratitude, and the joining of two families. In a wedding filled with excitement and celebration, the tea ceremony offers a quiet, intimate moment.
Whether you're considering including this tradition in your own wedding or attending a Chinese celebration and want to understand the meaning behind the sweet moments you'll see—here’s everything you need to know about the Chinese wedding tea ceremony and why it holds such deep importance.
What Is the Chinese Wedding Tea Ceremony?
The Chinese wedding tea ceremony is one of the most meaningful parts of the day. It’s when the couple serves tea to their parents, grandparents, and other important elders to show respect and gratitude. It’s a way of saying, “Thank you for everything you’ve done to get us here.”
Traditionally, the couple kneels or bows while offering tea, usually starting with the groom’s family and then the bride’s. The elders sit while receiving the tea and often give blessings, advice, or red envelopes in return. It’s a calm, intimate moment in the middle of all the wedding excitement.
When and Where Does the Chinese Wedding Tea Ceremony Take Place?
The tea ceremony can take place at different times during the wedding, depending on the couple’s plans and family preferences. Traditionally, it was held at home on the morning of the wedding before the formal ceremony. Nowadays days, many couples choose to host it at the wedding venue, in a hotel room, or wherever feels most convenient and comfortable.
There’s no one “right” time or place. Remember, you’re wedding day is all about authentically celebrating your love. So, it’s truly all about what fits best into your day.
The Meaning Behind the Tea Ceremony
When planning your dream wedding, it’s worth being intentional about the traditions you choose to include. Every element should reflect something meaningful to you—and that starts with understanding the “why” behind it. If you’re thinking about incorporating a tea ceremony into your celebration, know that it’s so much more than just a sweet moment.
The tea ceremony is rich with symbolism. It’s a way to honor your parents and elders, thank them for everything they’ve done, and celebrate the joining of two families. Even the smallest details carry meaning—red symbolizes luck and joy, tea represents harmony and respect, and sweet tea is believed to bring happiness to your marriage. It’s a meaningful pause in a fast-paced day that brings everyone back to what really matters: love, family, and tradition.
Hire a Photographer With Experience Capturing Chinese Weddings
Planning a wedding that is infused with Chinese culture? Choosing the right photographer is extremely important. You need someone who will not only beautifully photograph your big day
but also value and understand the meaning behind the traditions they’re capturing. That’s where I come in.
I’ve photographed over 110 weddings, many of which were filled with rich cultural traditions. I know how to anticipate and capture meaningful moments in a way that feels both natural and timeless. My style blends documentary-style with a touch of editorial elegance—so you can relax and truly enjoy the day while I take care of preserving every memory.
Ready for a fun, personalized photography experience? Let's chat. Please send over your wedding day details, and we’ll set up a complimentary consultation. I look forward to working with you and creating lasting memories together.